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On this particular morning, I walked into the cafe and found Alissa sitting in the back. She’d already gotten herself a coffee. She was holding the cup with both hands, still feeling the chill from outside. She was wearing jeans and a fabulous off white sequined top under the perfect navy blazer (not a spot of spit-up to be found), a pair of slouchy knee high boots – low heel – in mahogany with side buckles and they DID fit her calves. She had a manicure. French, pppfff of course. Her wedding and engagement rings fit her ring finger perfectly. Her hair looked lovely tucked behind one ear with ease, curls flowing and not frizzing. As I approached the table, I noticed her looking down and smiling. Of course. She’d brought the baby. He was in his carseat. I stopped and watched for a moment. As I stepped closer to the table his face became visible and I could see why she didn’t want to take her eyes off of him. He was THE CUTEST BABY IN THE WORLD.
Me: Hi, Alissa.
Alissa: Hi! So good to see you.
Me: Thank you so much for agreeing to this interview. It’s been awhile.
Alissa: Yes, it has. But the time off has been worth it. She looks down at her son…nope…sorry her manicure.
Me: He’s beautiful. How old is he now?
Alissa: Thank you. Ten weeks, eleven on Saturday.
Me: He’s so calm, such a good baby. He seems very advanced. He was holding a menu running his finger down the list of iced drinks.
Alissa: How nice of you to say that. Yes, I don’t mean to brag, but he is quite extraordinary. I don’t want to compare my baby to others. Although, he does seem to be gifted. And perfect. And gorgeous. In fact, he may start talking next week – you never know! She laughs.
Me: And how are you doing as a new mom?
Alissa: Wonderfully, I think. I’ve managed to look stunning, didn’t you notice? And, my child is clean, in a fresh diaper, keeping to himself and occasionally smiling at me to let me know that he needs me but is not overly needy. My husband is completely content with our new family life and is sure we’ll be able to afford everything a child needs. If you were to go to my house right now, my floors would be vacuumed, laundry done and put away, dishes loaded in the dishwasher and everything in its place.
Me: That sounds…almost impossible, but okay. So, you’re getting back to work then? We would love to know what’s next for you.
Alissa: Work? Who’s working? I had a kid so I could stay home and watch Oprah.
Me: Ha. That’s a joke…right? Anyway, you’ll be churning out something stellar soon?
Alissa: Totally. Yes.
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Isn’t my child pretty? His poop smells like the rainforest.
We sat and talked for another hour while her son filled out an application for Mensa or plotted the takedown of all wireless communications – I’m not sure. I swear he winked at me once. Look for a continuation of this interview in next month’s issue. Find out Alissa’s other uses for a breast pump and why you shouldn’t panic when the doctor delivering your baby says, “What is that?”
Over the past few months, my husband and I have come to the realization that no, we’re not going on that over-seas trip because we’re having a baby! We’re not installing new kitchen cabinetry because we’re having a baby! We’re not fencing in our backyard because we’re having a baby! You’re not going on that sky-diving trip because we’re having a baby and you can’t die and leave me here alone. What?
The money we would be spending is now going to nipple cream, butt cream, blankets that you receive things in, blankets that you wrap things up in, blankets that are annoyingly called “lovies”. Swings, play-pens or yards or packs or boxes, onesies – twosies – threesies. If you’re a new parent, the list is overwhelming. Will my child die if I don’t buy this brand of wipe? Should I be concerned about this pacifier and the manufacturer’s evil plan to confuse my baby? Is this my mother’s nipple? IS IT? I’m so confused! Maybe my baby should have this type of toy so that he is intellectually stimulated at a very young age, which will prove to be beneficial when he is sitting for the MCAT in 20 plus years.
Check these out:
Staring rabbits. Any way you turn this puzzle, the rabbits just keep staring. Is this really interesting to a toddler? Where are the fun colors and the cute bunny faces? I get it. There are several different ways to solve this puzzle. Thank God. I wouldn’t want my child to get his feelings hurt when it didn’t work on his first try. Now, to go and find a little league soccer team where the coach cheers when a player runs away from the ball and tells him, “Hey, great job recognizing your feelings about that ball. Who needs to score? Or play the game, right? High-five.”
Look are that pretty green paint. So soothing. Cute bassinet, right? Hmm…wheels may not be a great idea.
OH MY GOD. WHAT’S WRONG WITH THAT DUCK?!
I phone, you phone, we all phone for ridiculous apps. Hey, hun, we should totally buy that app that analyzes our baby’s cry. I mean, I definitely want to put my overly expensive phone in the crib where our child can have explosive diarrhea all over it and then I’ll be like, Oh, no. Baby is crying. Let me go check my phone and see why. Wait. I can’t because it’s covered in poop. What do I do now?!! I just want to know if the app recognizes the cry of a baby who is sad she was born to such f-ing idiots.
Oh, Glory Be! Do you think she knows there’s a baby coming out of that hole in her vest? Maybe you’ve seen this picture before. I searched for its origin and could not for sure connect it to www.togetherbe.com, but it seems likely they are the ones to blame. And, they’ve taken this particular product off the website. Wonder why? I love alien baby heads. This particular baby head is consuming this woman from the inside out. But at least they are both warm.
It’s so hot. Sooooo hot. It’s the kind of hot where you sweat when you step out of the shower, which makes me believe that showering may be a waste of time. And, it’s only June. It’ so hot that I considered joining a pool, something I didn’t think I would need to do until our kids become walking age. But it’s so damn hot. So, I searched online.
I’m not a water person. I’m not an outdoor person. Have you seen my picture? This ginger isn’t so attractive after a day at the pool or at the beach or a few minutes in a Walmart parking lot. I’m convinced that every Walmart is a gateway to Hell. I burn faster within a five-mile radius. Give me ten minutes outside with out sunscreen and prepare to nurse my blisters the rest of the day. Of course, if I’m going to be out – let’s say at the Farmer’s Market (because that makes me sound trendy when I really should be saying “the line for giant corn dogs at the state fair”) – I will slather on sunscreen. And I don’t care what people say about the number on the bottle. If one reads “80” and the other “25”, I’m buying the “80”. I’ll give it a chance. I wear hats, sunglasses and make sure to reapply sunscreen if I’m out for the long-haul. I do this so that I don’t end up in an oatmeal bath or need to wear The Hubbs’ baggy clothes for a week or need to change my personal theme song to “Rock Lobster.” Imagine my glee when I found an indoor public pool. The heavens are listening! I’ll admit that “public” can sometimes mean “Hey, come swim with that homeless guy who hangs out under the 540 bridge while he takes his monthly bath.” But this place is pretty swanky. Well, it looks swanky from the pictures online. I haven’t actually been to the facilities to check them out. However, from the online info, it seems that I can take water aerobics in the mornings. Hello! I can swim with a bunch of grandmas and be the best looking one there. Take that, golden girls.
Finding a pool meant I had to find a bathing suit. Can I point out that just because I would rather have a suit with a skirt because of some “issue areas” doesn’t mean that I want to look like a two-year old with a frilly bottom. And nevermind trying to find a maternity suit (yes, maternity – there’s a baby in there, so they tell me) that provides my lower half with some decent coverage. Oh, and one that provides ample support up top? I don’t want to accidentally practice nursing on the guy that isn’t looking where he’s swimming.
I just want to get some exercise. And get out of this heat. And do it some what fashionably. And beat those grandmas at their own game.
How long until fall?
This weekend, if your grandmother tells you she has an egg hunt planned for you and your boyfriend, don’t believe her. She’s just lost her dentures again and is going to make you find them. Your little cousin will bite the ears off the chocolate bunnies and then place them back in the centerpieces, one on top of the other so that it appears they’re having bunny sex. Your Dad will screw up the prayer again and his sister’s eyes will shoot death rays because he forgot to ask God to bless her 17 year old pug named “Lancelot”, who by the way, is having trouble breathing through his bunny costume. Your mother will bring up homosexuality as she passes the mashed potatoes saying, “Well, if one man wants to make love to another man…well, I just don’t see how that’s any of my business.” To which, your grandfather will choke on the ham and yell, “Jesus Christ! It’s Easter! Can’t we talk about something else?” And you will decide that’s the perfect moment to tell your family you’re pregnant.
If you do end up sitting around a table poking your casserole this weekend wondering how you could be related to these clowns, I suggest you do what I’ve been doing and try to find out.
Here’s what it’s like to research your ancestry:
1. You find out you had a great-aunt who married her first cousin and they had a kid who they named “Ralph.” Then, she divorces her first cousin and marries her neighbor and they have a kid who they name….”Ralph.”
2. Your father’s great-great uncle was a mime. And now your father thinks he’s got talent.
3. You’re 1/16th Cherokee and you have no way of using that to your advantage.
4. It’s quite possible that your grandfather was adopted and he doesn’t know. To tell or not to tell?
5. Your grandmother’s sister fell in love with a prison-inmate. The inmate fell in love with his cell-mate. She never got over it.
6. Your great-great grandmother was a pioneer for women. She was an explorer in the jungles of South America. It all sounds great until you find the picture of her holding someone’s severed head.
7. Hey! Your mom’s cousin, the one they all assumed had died after becoming homeless and hooked on meth is actually that guy that invented those super-soak towels that you secretly want to buy. He’s rich. You’re not.
8. Going way back, you find evidence proving you’re royalty. Your father’s family has roots in France and Germany. It appears you are a direct descendant of Charles le Gros! Dammit. When translated, that means “Charles The Fat.”
9. Your uncle’s birth certificate lists his name as “Wily” instead of “Willy.” You start calling him “The Coyote.”
10. Your mother takes this as an opportunity to tell you how you were conceived. You can’t remember the whole story because you started taking shots of tequila every time she said the word “penis.” There may have been some mention of cheese cloth. You’re not sure.
Maybe you should skip the family get-together and go see a movie instead.
And So They Did... 